M1. Set up the relationship
Meeting plan
Spend the first meeting on how you will work together, not on teaching. Making this explicit now prevents most of the mismatches that otherwise surface in October. Fill in the mentoring compact together, on screen, during this meeting.
- Ask: What made you want this fellowship — and what do you want to be true in April that is not true today?
- Ask: What kind of feedback actually helps you? In the moment, in writing, or after you have had time to sit with it?
- Ask: What stays between us, and what may I share with the program or with your chair?
- Ask: Where do you want me to push you, and where do you want room to work it out yourself?
- Ask: What does a bad week look like for you — and how would I know you were having one?
- Fellow brings: CV, the course they are assigned, and a rough sense of their goals.
- You both leave with: a completed compact, recurring calendar holds for the semester, and three goals for the year written in the fellow’s own words.